Tonight I join Simon for icecream
After spending an hour in my garden
Sewing seeds
Planting
It’s lovely to see new growth
For perhaps an hour I didn’t check my step count on my Fitbit
Or worry about the numbers I am too terrified to check on the scales
For a moment
I watched my dogs cavort over stale bread
And focused on spreading the new calendula seeds
As I pulled out the old growth
I talked to Simon
He was listening to the cricket
We made small talk, but the awkwardness is gone
Yesterday I even told him how uncomfortable I feel in my recovered body
Although I’ve still no idea why it makes me feel so vulnerable. It’s true I may never know. I think I can live with that
The fear is not knowing why
In this moment I can be so calm and lucid
The next swept away without being able to anticipate why
As I was in the supermarket today
And walking, feeling my legs brush together in my skirt
It’s a biological process
The key- to catch myself before I slip to far
Again I am in a moment
Like any, capable of snowballing
Until I am swept away.
In this moment I am tired
I ate icecream
And am forcing myself to sit with the feeling of my body
Simon is in his office
We will go to bed soon
In a moment
Then another
This day will be over
But for now
I am just myself